Rishta Reset: Best Relationship Counsellor in Jaipur
Private marriage counselling and couples therapy with Saurabh Jain, for couples and individuals, in Jaipur or online.
Stop fighting each other. Start fighting for each other.
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Saurabh Jain · Relationship Counsellor & Life Coach, Jaipur
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Who is the best relationship counsellor in Jaipur?
Saurabh Jain is one of Jaipur's most trusted relationship and marriage counsellors, with 23+ years of experience, 10 world records, 200+ awards, expertise in 41 domains and 4,250+ five-star Google reviews. He offers private 60-minute couples counselling and individual relationship counselling at Tonk Phatak, Jaipur and online across India, in Hindi or English. His signature Rishta Reset method combines attachment science, the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Nonviolent Communication with a written 30-day reconnection plan.
- Session
- 60 minutes, private 1:1
- Fee
- ₹5,000 per session
- Who
- Couples, individuals, engaged couples, families
- Where
- Tonk Phatak, Jaipur + online video
- Language
- Hindi, English, Hinglish
- Hours
- Mon to Sat 8 AM to 8 PM, Sun 10 AM to 6 PM
From the same old fight to partners again: your Rishta Reset journey
Most marriages don't break in one big fight. They break in a thousand small, unheard moments. One private session turns blame into understanding, and distance into a written reconnection plan.
- 01Today
Same fight, different day
Blame, silence, distance. You love each other but can't reach each other.
- 02Session 1
Your cycle, named
The hidden pattern behind every fight becomes visible. Relief starts here.
- 03Next 30 days
New daily rituals
Small written practices replace old reactions, one conversation at a time.
- 04Ahead
Partners again
Fights become talks. Distance becomes closeness. Home feels like home.
"Rishta todna aasaan hai, nibhana seekhna padta hai."
Is my relationship healthy? Which of these sound like yours?
Tap everything that feels familiar. Your connection gap, and the exact counselling stages that fit you, appear instantly. Be honest. Nobody's watching, nothing is saved.
Start tapping
Your personal relationship map appears here.
Relationship problems that bring couples to counselling in Jaipur
The issue is rarely that you fight. It's how you fight, and how you repair. Nobody ever taught the two people inside the relationship how to make it work.
Constant fights
Same argument, new day. Poor communication turns every small talk into a battle.
Trust issues & infidelity
An affair, a lie or an emotional affair has broken the ground you stood on.
In-laws & joint family
Family interference, boundaries and loyalty clashes pulling you in two directions.
Emotional distance
Same house, separate lives. Living like roommates, not partners.
Fading intimacy
Desire mismatch, pressure or silence around physical closeness.
Money fights
Spender vs saver, joint vs separate, debt and financial secrecy.
Pre-marriage doubts
Arranged or love marriage, values, roles and expectations unspoken.
Separation confusion
Stay or go? One leaning in, one leaning out, and children in between.
Why couples delay marriage counselling, and what the 6-year gap costs you
Couples stay unhappy for about six years before they seek help. By then, small cracks have become walls.
Source: The Gottman InstituteEasiest stage to fix. Patterns are still soft and both of you still want to talk.
Your health pays
Wounds of high-hostility couples healed at about 60% the speed of low-hostility couples.
Kiecolt-Glaser et al., 2005Your children learn it
Children learn how to love by watching how you fight. Destructive parental conflict is linked to anxiety and behaviour problems in kids.
Cummings & Davies, research on interparental conflictYour life span shifts
Strong relationships raised the odds of survival by 50%. Relationship satisfaction at 50 predicted health at 80 better than cholesterol.
Holt-Lunstad 2010 · Harvard Study of Adult DevelopmentCost of waiting calculator: how much of your life is conflict taking?
Move the sliders. Nothing is saved or sent.
Every month you wait, the pattern gets one month stronger. Book before it becomes your normal.
Relationships rarely break from one big fight. They break from the hundred small things that were never said.
Rishte jhagdon se nahi, ankahi baaton se toot-te hain.
Saurabh Jain
5 marriage counselling myths that quietly break relationships
Tap a card to flip the myth and see what the science actually says.
Do you turn toward each other? Play five real moments
Every day your partner makes small bids for attention. In Gottman's research, couples still married six years later turned toward these bids 86% of the time. Couples who divorced did it only 33% of the time. Choose your honest reply and watch your two hearts.
Moment 1 of 5
Your partner says: "Look, the sunset is beautiful today."
"Dekho, aaj sunset kitna sundar hai."
Research: Gottman & Driver, newlywed "bids for connection" study. A teaching tool, not a diagnosis.
The Rishta Reset framework: relationship counselling in 9 stages, from conflict to connection
Every stage of a relationship, from attachment patterns and communication to trust, intimacy, family, money and difficult decisions, mapped into one proven framework. You only work on the stages your relationship needs.
01Stage 1 · AssessmentAttachment styles & relationship assessment
Why does one of you chase while the other withdraws? We map both attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, secure, fearful-avoidant) and run a structured couples intake assessment, so we treat the root, not the noise.
Module 1: Relational Psychology, Attachment Theory & Assessment Science
- Adult attachment theory (anxious, avoidant, secure, fearful-avoidant) and the neurobiology of love
- Joint and individual intake assessments, ground rules and relationship viability
- Relational diagnostics: Gottman Sound Relationship House, Dyadic Adjustment Scale
Related: attachment styles in relationships, Gottman method assessment, couples intake assessment
02Stage 2 · CommunicationConflict resolution & couples communication
Criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling, Gottman's "Four Horsemen", predict breakdown more than any single fight. We replace them with calm, blame-free conversations, even when emotions run high.
Module 2: High-Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Mastery
- Identifying and dismantling the Four Horsemen
- Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and Speaker-Listener protocols
- Somatic self-soothing and flooding management in high-arousal sessions
Related: couples communication exercises, conflict resolution for couples, NVC in relationships
03Stage 3 · Emotional connectionEmotional intimacy with Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Under the anger is usually fear. Under the silence, hurt. Using EFT principles, we uncover what each of you really needs and rebuild emotional safety, so you feel like a team again.
Module 3: Emotional Connection, Empathy & EFT
- Primary emotions beneath secondary anger or withdrawal
- Expressing core vulnerabilities safely to create corrective emotional experiences
- Emotional safety, validation habits and daily intimacy rituals
Related: emotionally focused therapy, healing emotional distance, vulnerable communication
04Stage 4 · TrustInfidelity recovery & rebuilding trust after an affair
Betrayal shatters the story you believed. A three-phase path takes you from crisis to clarity: stabilise the shock, process what happened, then rebuild trust with transparency, boundaries and a genuine apology.
Module 4: Infidelity Recovery, Betrayal Trauma & Trust Reconstruction
- 3-phase affair recovery: stabilisation, betrayal narrative, structural rebuilding
- Betrayal trauma symptoms, intrusive thoughts and hypervigilance in the hurt partner
- Radical transparency, boundary contracts and apology protocols
Related: infidelity counselling, emotional affair recovery, healing from betrayal
05Stage 5 · Physical closenessPhysical intimacy restoration & Sensate Focus
Mismatched desire and performance pressure are common and rarely talked about. In a respectful, private space we open honest conversation and introduce gentle, pressure-free closeness exercises. Medical concerns are referred to a qualified doctor.
Module 5: Intimacy Restoration, Sexual Health & Sensate Focus
- Desire discrepancy and boredom in long-term relationships
- Sensate Focus and non-demanding touch to relieve performance anxiety
- Sexual health issues, pain, trauma triggers and open communication about needs
Related: intimacy counselling for couples, low desire in relationships, Sensate Focus
06Stage 6 · FamilyIn-law conflicts, joint family & blended families
In Indian marriages, you marry a family. A family map (genogram) reveals patterns passed down generations. Then we set kind but firm boundaries with in-laws and guide step-families and co-parents.
Module 6: Extended Family Systems, In-Law Dynamics & Blended Families
- Genogram mapping of multi-generational patterns and family-of-origin conditioning
- Boundaries against intrusive in-laws and external interference
- Stepfamily architecture, co-parenting and blended family integration
Related: in-law problems counselling, family counselling Jaipur, blended family dynamics
07Stage 7 · PreventionPre-marriage counselling, money & life transitions
Start married life with clarity, not assumptions. Align values, roles, careers, parenting and money (spender or saver, joint or separate) before the wedding, and get guided through new parenthood, relocation or the empty nest.
Module 7: Premarital Counselling, Life Transitions & Financial Alignment
- Structured premarital programmes: values, roles, parenting philosophy, careers
- Financial tension: spender/saver dynamics, joint vs separate assets, debt
- Parenthood, empty nest syndrome and relocation stress
Related: pre marriage counselling Jaipur, financial conflict in marriage, couples goal setting
08Stage 8 · DecisionsDiscernment counselling, separation & co-parenting
When one partner is leaning out and the other leaning in, discernment counselling helps you decide calmly: reconcile with commitment, or part with dignity. If you separate, we protect the children with a child-centred co-parenting plan.
Module 8: Discernment Counselling, Conscious Uncoupling & Divorce Mediation
- Discernment counselling for mixed-agenda couples
- Conscious uncoupling to reduce damage, anger and legal hostility
- Child-centric co-parenting plans and post-divorce communication
Related: divorce counselling Jaipur, should I stay or leave my marriage, co-parenting plan
09Stage 9 · Ethics & growthCounselling ethics, confidentiality & practice growth
Your safety and privacy come first. Clear consent, a transparent secrets policy, safety screening for any abuse, and a promise that the counsellor never takes sides. What is said in the room stays in the room.
Module 9: Counsellor Ethics, Legal Boundaries & Practice Growth
- Secrets policy, domestic violence screening and safety limits, court subpoenas
- Joint intake consent forms, confidentiality releases and legal risk mitigation
- Building a high-demand practice: niche positioning, couples retreats, digital lead generation
Related: relationship counsellor ethics, starting a counselling practice, couples therapy consent
Say it differently: turn a fight starter into a connection starter
Gottman's research found that the first three minutes of a conversation predict how it ends about 96% of the time. Tap a line you've heard at home and watch it reset.
"You never help at home!"
I'm exhausted today. Could you handle dinner tonight? It would mean a lot to me.
Criticism attacks the person. The reset names a feeling and makes one specific, doable request.
What happens in your 60-minute Rishta Reset couples counselling session
Private and confidential, in Hindi or English. Come together, or start alone if your partner isn't ready yet.
Connect
Your story, from both sides. A safe space with zero judgement.
Assess
Communication, trust, intimacy, conflict and values, measured.
Decode
Your hidden cycle named live: triggers, needs and the dance you're stuck in.
Repair
Tools practised in the room: speak without blame, listen without defending.
Commit
Your written 30-day reconnection plan and follow-up steps.
- Relationship health insights
- Your conflict cycle, named
- Communication toolkit
- Written 30-day plan
- Daily connection rituals
- Follow-up guidance
Built on the most researched couples approaches: the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy, where studies report around 70 to 75% of couples moving from distress to recovery. Why a written plan? A review of 94 studies found "when, where, how" plans significantly raise goal achievement (Gollwitzer & Sheeran, 2006).
Saurabh Jain: relationship counsellor, life coach and 10‑time world record holder
He doesn't counsel from a textbook. He counsels from a life that was tested, again and again, and from 23+ years of helping people through mental health struggles, career crossroads and strained relationships.
- Age 8Lost his father. His mother chose to build her children's life over her own. That choice is his driving emotion.
- 2009Lost his sister, his best buddy. It took more than a year to rise again. He knows grief inside a family.
- 2017 to 2022Bankruptcy, heavy debt and a brain haemorrhage, all at once. He was breaking inside, and so was his family. He knows what pressure does at home.
- Today10 world records, including a 30-hour non-stop speech (2025), and thousands of lives changed.
"We don't fix the vastu of homes. We fix the vastu of minds."हम घरों का नहीं, मनों का वास्तु ठीक करते हैं · Saurabh Jain
- Never takes sides: rooted in Anekantavada, he sees the truth in both partners' view
- Speaks from the heart, explains with stories and real examples
- Respects the uniqueness of every person and every marriage
- Fluent in Hindi and English, comfortable with Hinglish
Also leads Quantum Love, NLP, emotional tapping and happiness & stress management programmes.
Written and reviewed by Saurabh Jain, relationship counsellor, life coach and founder of EnactraX, Jaipur. 23+ years of guiding people through relationships, mental wellbeing and life decisions. 10 world records, 200+ awards.
Last updated: 11 November 2026
Saurabh Jain reviews: 4.9 ★ from 4,250+ people
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"The environment really makes it comfortable for you to open up about your problems and communicate without feeling any kind of judgement."
"Not only did it solve my problems, social anxiety and decision making, I developed skills that would have taken me years."
"I met so many speakers and trainers in my life, but Saurabh Sir is unmatched. The approach is 100% practical."
"We need a guide to address problems with unwavering clarity. I found my mentor for living education and psychological development."
"I transformed from a very shy and introvert girl to a little extrovert. Honoured to have a teacher like Saurabh Jain sir."
"A transformative journey in my confidence and communication. I feel more focused and prepared for the future."
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Pick your problem, see your result: benefits of relationship counselling
Constant fights: calm, solved conversations
How: the Four Horsemen are replaced with blame-free scripts. See stage 2
Broken trust: rebuilt step by step, or a clear decision
How: a 3-phase recovery path: stabilise, process, rebuild. See stage 4
In-law conflict: respect at home without choosing sides
How: a family map and the exact words to hold your boundaries. See stage 6
Emotional distance: feeling like a team again
How: EFT-based reconnection that reaches the hurt under the silence. See stage 3
Money tension: one plan, zero secrecy
How: spender-saver alignment and shared financial goals. See stage 7
Before marriage: a start built on clarity
How: a structured pre-marriage counselling programme. See stage 7
Benefits of couples counselling: before and after
Before
After
"You never listen to me."
→"Help me understand what you meant."
Silent treatment for days
→A 20-minute cool-off, then a calm repair
Checking phones, sleepless nights
→Transparency agreements and rebuilt trust
Caught between spouse and parents
→Respectful boundaries everyone understands
Roommates sharing a house
→Partners sharing a life
Small daily repairs compound: 1% better each day is about 37x in a year
1.01365 ≈ 37.8 · 0.99365 ≈ 0.03
Saurabh Jain · The 1% Coach
A marriage isn't fixed in one big conversation. It's rebuilt in small, daily choices: one kinder word, one listened-to evening, one repair before bed.
- One 10-minute connection ritual a day
- One repair after every rough moment
- One weekly check-in, written in your plan
Is marriage counselling worth it? 5 reasons couples wait, answered
If it were working, you wouldn't be reading this. One hour with the right tools saves years of the same fight.
Start alone. Most partners join once they see the change in you.
Nobody will know. Private sessions, private entry, online if you prefer.
Compare ₹5,000 with the cost of a separation, legal fees, or children growing up in conflict.
Even if you part, a calm, clear decision protects your peace and your children.
Is relationship counselling worth the money? Calculate your return on peace
Uses your answers from the cost of waiting calculator above. Change them there, or set your plan here.
Rishta Reset ROI calculator
Your own estimate, not a promise. Results depend on both of you practising the tools.
Relationship counselling for couples, individuals, families and future counsellors
Married couples
Newlyweds to 25 years married. Fights, distance, trust or intimacy.
Individuals
Partner not ready? Start alone. Change your move, change the dance.
Engaged couples
Pre-marriage counselling for arranged and love marriages.
Parents & joint families
In-laws, parenting differences and family harmony.
NRI & long-distance couples
Private online counselling across time zones.
Aspiring counsellors
Psychology students, coaches and therapists learning the 9-stage framework.
Marriage & couples counselling fees in Jaipur
One fee, no hidden extras, same price for a couple or one person. No packages, no pressure: you decide after your first session. Only a limited number of private slots open each week.
Rishta Reset session · In person
- Couple or individual
- Relationship assessment
- Conflict cycle decoded
- Written 30-day plan
- Tonk Phatak, Jaipur
Online counselling
- Private video session
- Anywhere in India or abroad
- NRI and overseas couples
- Same method, same privacy
Pre-marriage programme
- Values, roles & expectations
- Money and family alignment
- Conflict style check
- Arranged or love marriage
Counsellor training
- All 9 modules
- 9 professional toolkits
- Ethics & practice growth
- Mentored by Saurabh Jain
Visit the private counselling room in Jaipur
Siddhant Complex, Gali No. 6, Adarsh Basti, Adarsh Bazar, Barkat Nagar, Tonk Phatak, Jaipur, Rajasthan 302015Mon to Sat 8 AM to 8 PM · Sun 10 AM to 6 PM
Download the free Rishta Reset brochure (PDF)
Organisations, clubs and societies: ask about employee wellness, marriage enrichment and healthy relationship workshops.
Relationship counsellor vs advice from relatives vs online tips
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| What you need | Saurabh Jain counselling | Relatives & friends | Online tips |
|---|---|---|---|
| 100% confidential | ✓ Always | ✗ Rarely | Partly |
| Unbiased, no sides | ✓ On the relationship's side | ✗ Usually take a side | N/A |
| Proven, research-based method | ✓ Gottman, EFT, NVC | ✗ Opinions | Generic |
| Fits your exact situation | ✓ Personal assessment | Partly | ✗ One size fits all |
| Written plan & follow-up | ✓ 30-day plan | ✗ | ✗ |
Relationship & marriage counselling in Jaipur: frequently asked questions
What is Rishta Reset?
Rishta Reset is Saurabh Jain's signature relationship and marriage counselling programme in Jaipur and online. It uses a 9-stage framework built on attachment science, the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy and Nonviolent Communication, and every session ends with a written 30-day reconnection plan.
Who is the best relationship counsellor in Jaipur?
Saurabh Jain is one of Jaipur's most trusted relationship and marriage counsellors: 10 world records, 200+ awards, 23+ years of experience, expertise in 41 domains and 4,250+ five-star Google reviews across his two business pages. He offers private 60-minute sessions for couples or individuals at Tonk Phatak, Jaipur and online, in Hindi or English.
What is the fee for marriage counselling in Jaipur?
A 60-minute private relationship or marriage counselling session with Saurabh Jain costs ₹5,000, whether you come as a couple or alone, in person or online. It includes a relationship assessment, your conflict pattern decoded, tools practised live and a written 30-day reconnection plan.
Do both partners need to attend couples counselling?
No. Coming together gives the fastest results, but you can start alone. When one partner changes their side of the pattern, the whole relationship begins to shift, and many partners join later.
Is relationship counselling confidential?
Yes. Every session is private and 100% confidential. Nothing you share is discussed with family members or anyone else, and Saurabh Jain never takes sides between partners.
Does couples counselling really work?
Research says yes when partners practise the tools. Studies of Emotionally Focused Therapy report that around 70 to 75% of couples move from distress to recovery. The approach here draws on the Gottman Method, EFT and Nonviolent Communication, plus a written plan and follow-up so new habits stick.
Do you offer pre-marriage counselling in Jaipur?
Yes. Engaged couples in arranged or love marriages get a compatibility and expectations check covering values, money, careers, family roles, children and conflict style. Research on premarital education reports about a 30% improvement in marital outcomes (Carroll & Doherty, 2003).
Can counselling help after infidelity or broken trust?
Yes. A three-phase infidelity recovery path covers crisis stabilisation, processing the betrayal and rebuilding trust with transparency and boundaries, or a calm, clear decision about the future if you choose to separate.
Can you help with in-law and joint family problems?
Yes. Family mapping reveals the patterns behind the conflict, and you learn to set respectful, firm boundaries that protect your marriage without breaking family ties.
Is online relationship counselling available?
Yes. Private video sessions are available across India and for NRI couples abroad, with the same method, confidentiality and fee as in-person sessions.
How many relationship counselling sessions will we need?
Many couples feel a clear shift after the first session. Deeper patterns such as infidelity or long-standing distance usually need a few sessions with practice in between. You decide after session one, with no pressure.
क्या काउंसलिंग हिंदी में होती है?
हाँ। सेशन हिंदी, इंग्लिश या हिंग्लिश में होता है, जिसमें आप सहज हों। पति-पत्नी के झगड़े, ससुराल की समस्या, भरोसे की कमी या शादी से पहले की काउंसलिंग, सब पूरी तरह गोपनीय।
Can I learn to become a relationship counsellor?
Yes. Saurabh Jain's 9-module relationship counsellor training covers attachment theory, conflict de-escalation, EFT, infidelity recovery, intimacy, family systems, pre-marriage counselling, discernment counselling, and ethics and practice growth, with a professional toolkit for every module. Ask for the next batch dates.
What if there is violence or a mental health emergency?
Safety comes first. If there is physical violence, threats or a mental health crisis, call 112 (emergency), 181 (women helpline) or Tele MANAS 14416, and consult a licensed medical professional. Counselling supports, but does not replace, medical or psychiatric care.
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- Quantum Love programmeConscious partnership and emotional coherence
- Stress management and happiness trainingMental wellbeing that lasts
- Tapping Into Emotion trainingRelease stored emotional stress
- NLP coaching in JaipurRewire thought and communication patterns
- Self discovery trainingKnow yourself before you fix anything
- Energy psychology and holistic healingBalance for mind and body
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Safety first: in an emergency or if you face violence, call 112 or the Women Helpline 181. For mental health support, call Tele MANAS 14416. Counselling supports, but does not replace, medical or psychiatric care.
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